{"id":184,"date":"2022-05-26T09:44:00","date_gmt":"2022-05-26T09:44:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/discovercotonou.com\/temiandoluoma\/?p=184"},"modified":"2022-05-26T09:44:00","modified_gmt":"2022-05-26T09:44:00","slug":"let-kids-be-kids-dont-make-them-take-sides-sights-sounds-of-my-kids-goofing-around-while-with-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/discovercotonou.com\/temiandoluoma\/2022\/05\/26\/let-kids-be-kids-dont-make-them-take-sides-sights-sounds-of-my-kids-goofing-around-while-with-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Let Kids Be Kids: Don&#8217;t Make Them Take Sides &#8211; Sights\/Sounds of My Kids Goofing Around While With Me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/NsX1Oht0tpQ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">This video I&#8217;ve added my podcast to<\/a>, was recorded using my phone, on Sunday 30th May 2021 (from 5.16p.m) by my children &#8211; mainly the 12 year old girl, along with her 8 year old brother.<\/p>\n<p>They were spending the day with me, at the family house, so I could help their 15 year old sister with a Wooden Kite building Maths project she had to do for school.<\/p>\n<p>In my commentary, I note that this is how they are (i.e. free\/uninhibited) when they&#8217;re ALONE with me, and how they act VERY different with me, once their mother (now my ex-partner) is around.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong><em>Towards the end, I explain &#8211; using several true stories to illustrate &#8211; why making kids take sides with either parent, when there is conflict between parents CAN BE VERY HARMFUL to their normal development, and should therefore be avoided.<\/em><\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Click <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/NsX1Oht0tpQ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/youtu.be\/NsX1Oht0tpQ<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This video I&#8217;ve added my podcast to, was recorded using my phone, on Sunday 30th May 2021 (from 5.16p.m) by my children &#8211; mainly the 12 year old girl, along with her 8 year old brother. They were spending the day with me, at the family house, so I could help their 15 year old &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/discovercotonou.com\/temiandoluoma\/2022\/05\/26\/let-kids-be-kids-dont-make-them-take-sides-sights-sounds-of-my-kids-goofing-around-while-with-me\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Let Kids Be Kids: Don&#8217;t Make Them Take Sides &#8211; Sights\/Sounds of My Kids Goofing Around While With Me&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":185,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,29],"tags":[37],"class_list":["post-184","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-about","category-recommended","tag-let-kids-be-kids-dont-make-them-take-sides-sights-sounds-of-my-kids-goofing-around-while-with-me"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/discovercotonou.com\/temiandoluoma\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/let-kids-be-kids.png","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/discovercotonou.com\/temiandoluoma\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/184","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/discovercotonou.com\/temiandoluoma\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/discovercotonou.com\/temiandoluoma\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/discovercotonou.com\/temiandoluoma\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/discovercotonou.com\/temiandoluoma\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=184"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/discovercotonou.com\/temiandoluoma\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/184\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":186,"href":"https:\/\/discovercotonou.com\/temiandoluoma\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/184\/revisions\/186"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/discovercotonou.com\/temiandoluoma\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/185"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/discovercotonou.com\/temiandoluoma\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=184"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/discovercotonou.com\/temiandoluoma\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=184"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/discovercotonou.com\/temiandoluoma\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=184"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}