Category: Relationships

‘Why is it that there are so many married men on the streets at night? Wetin dem dey look for? Don’t they have wives?’…” – Male Medical Director of a high profile clinic located in an affluent area of Lagos, speaking to me in THIS Maiden Edition of my Domestic Violence ROSI™ Interview Series

This is the verbatim audio to text transcript of my 10 minute (30th March 2022) interview with a medical professional, who runs a high profile clinic in an affluent area of Lagos, and who shall remain anonymous for obvious reasons. He shares true stories and gives real life examples from interactions with his male and […]

“Most Parents in Africa, We Want to Have the Respect That We Do Not Work For” #TVC Femi Shofoluwe #3

This is the 3rd and final episode in my Reaction to #TVC Television Continental’s Toxic Parenting Video interview with Femi Shofoluwe. In this episode, I highlight a VERY important point made by Femi by playing an excerpt from his response to a question by the host… Then I discuss Multiple Real Life Case Study Scenarios […]

Will You Tell Dangote to Respect You, Just Because You’re Older? – Femi Shofoluwe #TVC [Toxic Parenting #2 of3]

This is Part 2 of 3 in my Toxic Parenting Reaction Video series. This episode highlights the misguided perception, prevalent among many African parents, that : 1. They can DEMAND respect from their kids, instead of EARNING it. 2. Making their kids “fear” them will make such kids give the parents “respect”. Click https://youtu.be/OZ5q4zOq8K8 ========== […]

Many African Parents Are Toxic – It’s Cultural – Femi Shofoluwe #TVC | These 6 Signs Make YOU a Toxic Parent! [True-Story-Based Examples by Tayo Solagbade]

I react to this #TVC (Television Continental) interview of Femi Shofoluwe, by providing additional information (including real life examples) of Common Traits of Toxic Parents. Click https://youtu.be/L-g5GbEh1k4

Violent/Abusive People Are NOT Born: They Are MADE! My Reaction to #YourViewTVC’s “Does Provocation Justify Domestic Violence?

This is Part 1 of a 2 part series with the theme: A Root Cause We Often Miss -Which Can Help Us Nip Domestic Violence in the Bud. In this 2 part presentation, I react to the episode of #YourViewTVC’s  Talk Show titled “Does Provocation Justify Domestic Violence” published on Nov 12, 2020. Click https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dt8hqSv_O4g

Strange Pawpaw Tree Shows Root Cause of Nigeria’s Domestic Violence (DV) is a “People Profiting from Victims’ Pains” Culture

Nigeria’s DV problem has become a pandemic. And the reason why it’s that way is that we have developed a culture of PROFITING from PAIN. I call it P4P for short. In this video, I use the analogy of a Pawpaw tree with a peculiar fruiting behaviour to illustrate my point. TIP: In Nigeria if […]

Osinachi Could Have Been Rescued From Abuse, Like This Girl Was by Pastor Enenche

2 Men Stole/Sexually Abused a Girl & Tried to Use her to Defraud Pastor Enenche: How He Discerned & Exposed Them Click here to watch…

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