Some so called Feminists are fond of saying “ALL MEN are scum”.  That ALL men are bad. I always tell them that THAT includes their own male loved ones e.g their sons, cousins, brothers  father’s etc.  The narrow mindedness they display is of crazy proportions! Yet many influence thousands.

I argue – and I KNOW I’m right – that there are simply good and bad people who are either male or female. Period. Only a bitter, immature minded person will adopt such one sided, and extreme views about this kind of issue. The danger is they can – and often do – translate that bitterness to their kids, by denying them access to a beneficial father figure.

Good Men can be Good fathers. We need Good Men to be strong & insist on staying in their kids lives even if they are separated from the mothers, towards achieving balanced parenting to help kids grow up as well rounded adults.

This will include being firm when necessary, to teach discipline and instill values. To cave in to feminist sentiments when you need to put your foot down and correct a child’s bad behaviour, for instance, may gain you approval from
misguided feminist apologists, but it will really only confirm that you are a pretender to manhood or what I call a “Weakling in Men’s Pants” (WIMP).

Tupac SHAKUR, the late rapper, once said:
“I know for a fact that had I had a father, I’d have some discipline, I’d have more confidence. Your mother cannot calm you down the way a man can. You need a man to teach you how to be a man.”

He admitted he began running with gangs because he wanted the things a father gives to a child. Especially to a boy: Structure and protection. Children who grow up without a father, are 5 times more likely to live in poverty and commit crime, 9 times more likely to drop out of school, and 20 times more likely to end up in prison. “  Source: Online Video on Black Fathers/Parenting.

Tayo K, Solagbade
Publisher of the Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)
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